Where to place my nephew and his sons?

We are having three bridesmaids and three groomsmen, so our bridal party is pretty small. We dont really know any younger girls to be a flower girl, so we arent having one. My fiance has two young boys from a previous marriage (ages are 2 and 4) and we really want them to be incorporated into the wedding party somehow. I also have a 5 year old nephew that Im super close to and want him in the wedding party as well. I want his sons to have a "more important" role in the party being as they are the only children we will ever have. We could either have his sons be junior groomsmen or the ring bearers, and whatever they arent, my nephew could be. I dont know what title has more "importance" in a wedding, or if it really matters. Someone told me they should be the ring bearers bc that role serves more of an actual purpose. Someone else told me we shouldnt have a jr groomsman and just have my nephew escort my mother down the aisle. I really dont have any idea here...THANKS!!

Where to place my nephew and his sons?
I don't think that one role is more important than the other... Why don't you ask your fiance's boys what they would rather do. Describe the different roles to them and see what they want to do (especially the 4 year old).



You an also incorporate something in the ceremony that the 4 of you can take part in, such as a family sand ceremony.





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Reply:Here is what someone told me to do and it works so beautifully. Have flower children. . .I had more young boys than girls so I have one as the ring bearers and the other are classified as flower children, doesn't mean they have flowers to throw, but they would walk up the aisle as a group or skip up the aisle in a lighter version of your wedding colors.